Knowing Yourself Before you can expect your wife or girlfriend to understand your chastity fetish, desires and fantasies you should first think about yourself and define your own understanding of your needs. How can he please you? I knew that if I denied myself orgasm regularly, my wife would start wonder why—and suddenly stopping having sex could have lead to hurt feelings and misunderstandings. Now he does waste it in porn and masturbation. One thing that might help is to forbid him to speak during your sessions unless you grant him permission to address you in a limited manner. Good on you for not actually being a jerk, I think treating femdom as a fun little experiment is a good way to go.
Being a Keyholder
Advice For New Chastity Relationships
Every woman goes through what you are experiencing. That is what he is really longing for. This is going to sound kind of backwards, but I recommend telling strangers on the internet first. Don't worry, you cannot spank him too hard if you keep it to his ass cheeks. If you can achieve this mentality you will find the idea and allure of chastity to be so much more. Honestly I feel both of you are off base. I'm so filled with joy because my wife came back to me 12 hours after doctor Ororo finished preparing the spell.
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She replied "yea" genuine or in genuine I took her at her word and said "ohh I'm sorry". As with any shiny new thing, it can become a little obsessive. I don't buy that explanation. If wearing a little leather and using a whip will motivate him to treat you like Queen and will cause him to submit to your authority, then do it. To keep the delights of chastity alive, you need to to a break from it, particularly if your husband is a long term wearer. I will always wonder if he is trying to get me to dominate him.
Some may focus strongly on fantasy rather than reality. Whilst holding his key can could gently deny him permission to cum on many an occasion, and yet expected him serve his keyholder with his tongue and lips, or perhaps you favourite dildo, with skill, devotion and love. In this world he feels connected to his partner and at her will. I have never met the man so I cannot comment on his character or his motivation. This dynamic is huge and causes many men to chase dominate women in the bdsm lifestyle. We males are so abysmal that we are not worthy to lick the dirt off their boots. He might be trying to push your buttons and this might result in you thinking about just ending it.